Why are western democracies scared to take care of their people?

What and who you referring to?

That everyone claims to care for democracy but noone actually believes in it.

The transformation of the system we grew up in that takes place before our very own eyes.

Democracy becomes Oligarchy that becomes Tyranny which becomes Democracy...

Well, we are NOT a democracy, Skeezeeks.
We are a Constitutional Republic.

Yup... democrats don't let their voters decide their party candidate... why should they allow all the voters their right to select a President...

If you look over to the EU, same song and dance