Tmi warning… I have a big chest. My bra band is 42 and I’m not going to share my cup size here but it's on the decently large side. If I take a selfie that's too close, you're gonna see my face, neck, arms, etc but you're also going to probably notice my big chest (especially if I’m not binding my chest). If I'm not zoomed out enough, someone could assume my stomach is on the large side too, or that the rest of me is. I assume Caleb was snooping around, maybe saw a photo of me or two (or maybe someone he thought was me), and then assumed I was a big fatty because of my big chest and decided to use that assumption to try to insult me. But I could be way off base. It's just what I think happened. Basically, it's the only conclusion I could come to as to why Caleb would assume I’m really fat.