Hmm

just straight up tell him ig

You could always write it out and text him or give him a t letter, sometimes this helps people organize their thoughts

If you know what gender(s) your friend is attracted to and it’s the gender you are, AND your friend is also single (or polyam), then you can just tell him. If you know they aren't attracted to the gender you are and/or aren't available, then it’s probably not a good idea to tell him.

i dont know. my gf told me like 30 seconds before i told them

That depends.

How long have you known each other, and how would you plan on telling him?

I've known his since kindergarden

That’s a tricky one.

On one hand, you should know each other enough that it’s not weird if one of you likes the other and the other doesn’t. But on the other hand, if he does think it’s weird, this kind of friendship would be too much to lose.

I’d say, try and figure out if there’s a chance that he likes you. If there isn’t, I’d hold onto that for now. But if there’s a chance, go for it (and tell me how it goes.) GOOD LUCK!!

thank you

Yeah, no problem!