We were taught that we were going to grow up and be mothers or fathers. Period. End of subject. Fathers had jobs and the home and family were the Mothers job; That's It! Moms could be nurses, secretaries, maids or teachers as long as it didn't interfere with her "actual" job of being a homemaker and dads could be whatever their fathers were; Now, if I am understanding this correctly, you're bitching because you have TOO MANY CHOICES and complaining because working for your dreams is too hard and expensive? We taught our kids that they could be whatever they wanted because we wanted you to have more choices than we had; What's up with that?