the cons tip the scale because they're such a heavy weight to bear

no
it isn't

Teddy Roosevelt said something about people who never dare to take risks living in a grey twilight that knows neither the joy of victory nor the agony of defeat...and he said it like it was a bad thing. I could comfortably live out the rest of my days in that grey twilight.

facts

i loved a lot of girls on my life and it hurted cause they never reciprocated me. But when you find a good person to love, love is the most beautiful feeling ever existed. Love is a thing for what is worthy fight about

To never love is to never lose anyone you cherish.

No love means no sadness.

To never love is better.

To never love is to never live. So to never live is better.

Being lonely is sadness. Either way, there's no avoiding it.