to stop depression i have restarted calamity but this time with a few more goals in mind: make good buildings. dont utterly demolish the world. revengance(expert+). when i beat a boss i "unlock" a higher dificulty of it.
all of these are to force me to spend more time on the world. so i also decided to add more mods. eg infernum(this will be fun...) and a couple of experience and quality of life.