You know what would fix this issue? Socializing men the same way women are for their sexuality. Men deserve to be sexually desired for being virgins too. Yk. Make bj machines cheaper and get men into smut instead of the hub.
That's why, if a man imagines it with a woman, whether she's real or fictional, it means he doesn't believe women are people. What about the shirtless muscular men holding swooning women on the covers of romance novels? Do you expect us to believe that's a platonic relationship? Well, I don't think it's wrong when we do it. It's... different somehow. So, what you're saying is, women should be shamed for their natural desires? Don't you think that's unfair?