Yeah no thank you! I am glad we can have a human discussion with the reason we humans have. And yes the things we here on earth experience are horrible, but God permits it, that can be hard for a lot of people to think about (Me included) but again, the resurrection promises us hope in the new life. But when we think about our sins and the fallen state of humanity, it makes a little more sense. There could be other reasons also, like it could be a test of our faith (Like Job in the Old Testament) or-if a loved one dies suddenly for example- that could be him providing them a reward in heaven quickly.