i'll list two of mine in the comments

Literally anyone from the owl house

my genderfluid highness amethyst from steven universe
and Ruby and Sapphire, also from Steven Universe

Dylan and Ryan

Will Byers, Stranger Thingx

Transformers franchise: Knockout and Breakdown (A canon gay couple from Transformers: Prime), Nightshade (A nonbinary Cybertronus Terran from EarthSpark), and Starscream (Transformers: Prime version, no confirmed sexuality but it's often hinted at him being gay)
Hazbin Hotel: Charlie, Vaggie and Alastor
Gravity Falls: Grenda (No confirmed relation to LGBTQ, but most likely transgender)

Astolfo (fate grand order)

Gerard Way… does he count

Double Trouble from SPoP, who is nonbinary
Frisk, Kris, and Chara, from Undertale and Deltarune, also nonbinary
Kelsey from CotC, who is sapphic
Angel Dust, from Hazbin Hotel, who is gay
And a bunch others!! We're so lucky to have so much representation these days.

Kainé
From: also the NieR franchise
Gender: Intersex (Identifies as female)
Sexuality: Hetero

additional notes: probably the only intersex character i've seen anywhere tbh. she's also one helluva potty mouth (Weiss! You dumbass! Start making sense you rotten book or your gonna be sorry! Maybe I'll tear out your pages one by one or maybe I'll put you in the go***amn furnace! Oh Shadowlord, I love you Shadowlord, come over here and give Weiss a big sloppy kiss, Shadowlord! Now pull your head outta your go***amn ass and start f￶u￶cking helping us!!)

Bisexual pickle 😊💕

Emil
From: NieR franchise
Gender: Male
Sexuality: Gay

additional notes: he's a lil goober (and basically a demigod)

Harley Quinn

Rachel, Max, and Chloe from Life is Strange, Ava and Beatrice from Warrior Nun, Beidou and Ningguang from Genshin Impact, and literally anyone from She-Ra and the Princesses (Queens actually) of Power, and the Owl House. Lumity, Catradora, Scorpifuma, Amberprice, Pricefield, Avatrice, Beigguang, and rest of the genuine ships from all media: may they all last forever! They represent so much love 💚

i actually mostly dislike lgbtq people in this context
i prefer actual LGBTQ people

I mainly dislike characters that only exist for gay representation and have no other use beside that

So, according to you, who are "actual" LGBTQ+ people?

Anyone who identifies as LGBTQIA+ and is alive and breathing. Or dead.

Identifying as LGBTQIAP+ is different from actually being LGBTQIAP+. Identifying with a label is different from actually having an identity associated with that label. LGBTQIAP+ characters are made for representation of LGBTQIAP+ people, just like neurodiverse characters are made for representation of neurodiverse people, plural characters are made for representation of plural people, disabled characters are made for representation of disabled people, and so on.

People's representation is the context. By saying "i actually mostly dislike lgbtq people in this context", it almost seems as if you dislike representation of LGBTQIAP+ people.

Look, idk if you took 7 months to write that or if you just found it again, but keep in mind i made that message late at night when my brain wasnt working.