That's fair. I consider most of their destruction when they do happen to be caused by people not being cautious enough, not paying attention enough, or ignoring environmental factors though. But that's definitely fair.
My mom had one with her friends when she came out as bi but my grandma said that she was lying for attention and made my mom tell that to her whole grade (20 people total in the 12th grade) but ofc her friends knew that my grandma made her say that and they accepted her