Greyromantics and Aromantics: when someone has a crush on you

"why"

I’m gonna use YEET from now on

Yeet their love/infatuation! :P

I will be using all of these

alternative: nuh uh, no you don't. although in actuality it is more like no i dont

I go for something similar. I’ll typically be like “ You don't even know me!” because if they did, they would know how silly they're being right now.

i mean if they did know you they would know you are aromantic. brilliant

I'd put myself more in the demiromantic or greyromantic category but yea the vast majority of people who have told me were wasting their time big time and being absolutely silly. And it can get really uncomfortable sometimes.

A few years ago, I had a guy I hadn't even met in person yet try to tell me he was my soulmate once and that was entirely awkward. It's like, first off, no you aren't, but if you somehow actually were you'd know not to do this crap and how uncomfortable you’re making me feel. I dabble working in the entertainment field and with making art & t-shirts so he was also reaching out to me for those reasons too. He's on a semi-popular ghost hunter show (not going to name names) and he wanted me to make art that they could use on merch for the Christmas season and maybe appear in the show for a few episodes and if I was liked enough, maybe I could appear more often. So basically he wanted my talent and I'm pretty sure, if I had to guess, he was also trying to get something else on the side if I got involved with the show… Unless he was actually genuine about me potentially romantically, but even then the answer is still no thanks to that… It could have been a really good career move for me to be part of that show, but he made me feel really uncomfortable just talking over text & social media. I don't even want to guess how uncomfortable he would have made me in person. So long story short, I didn't end up doing it.

ok. i can easely tell that you have a different mental config from me. i could tell you what i spotted that differeciates us (not in a weird way). but yeah people are silly

I've already been analyzed a lot over the years. I have various mental disorders which I believe can get in the way of me deciding on a definite romantic identity. I feel like sometimes demi makes more sense and other times grey makes more sense, it varies a lot over time… so for now I sort of identify as both. But sure, you can tell me what you spotted if you’d like.

no no, like i like to think i think more logicaly(might need to reread that), i dont know but 1: you just seam to rant abount things. and two i would of thought that the guy was indead grooming me if i were in your position. not talking abount mental disorders but people have different ways of thinking and logic prosesses

grah the only way to get to know people is by giving information or stalking. and nither of those are fun

1. I'm a bit of a story sharer if I feel like it fits into the topic that's being talked about. I'm trying to show that I relate and be friendly. I also like to give additional context if I think it might be useful ( like when I mentioned my mental disorders). I assumed what you spotted was going to be what you thought my romantic orientation would be so I gave more context.

2. I'm over 18 so it's not grooming. But it could definitely be seen as someone who has more success trying to use some power to their advantage. Theres unfortunately people in entertainment who will do that. I don't think it's much of a secret anymore. I guess I probably should have included that I am over 18, I assumed it'd be obvious with the context, but I guess not and that's my bad.

1. obviasly im not good at getting people on the same page as me.
2. in my case i would be. and from other sorces i can tell you are over 18

Can you clearly define the page you want me to be on or what you want me to understand?

I don't understand. I'm sorry if my story sharing annoyed you. I’ll try to remember your user name and not share another story to you… I don't think most people have an issue with it though unless things are just done very different on imgflip.

no no im completely fine with it! see were not on the same page here. my fault

you and i we think differently. im pointing out things to further prove that we think differently. that is all.

the last one hits REALLY HARD