Not denying that women are oppressed too... I only say that society hates men because of how men are often seen as predators, horndogs, pragmatic, brusque, and a bit expandable when it comes to labor.
For example, here's some of the oppression I went through prior to transition: I was constantly derided for being 'too emotional' because I was 'a man', expected to be purely goal driven with no room for recreation because 'men need to provide for themselves', constantly picked on for being 'too weak' because I wasn't built like a greek god, nearly got suspended just for walking within 30m of a girl whom had decided to report lies about me 'stalking her', constantly blamed for every imagined sleight a woman had reported me for without any question, been told that my severe entomophobia meant that I was 'acting like a child' even though women who had entomophobia didn't get any of the same ridicule, teachers/counselors/group therapists/etc always assuming that every time talking to girls was purely carnal intent, getting lower empathy from society for being lonely, and worst of all, being constantly assumed a possible SA'er by society in spite of my feminine phenotype and quite demure body language.
Since transitioning, much of this oppression has ceased; for example, no one says I'm too 'emotional' anymore just for experiencing my normal range of emotion, people tend to have more support for my passion projects rather than just telling me to 'get a degree lol', nobody has ever called me 'too weak' anymore, my entomophobia is viewed as normative, therapists frequently are nurturing to my issues rather than me being a 'weak manchild incel' who needs to 'pull myself up by my bootstraps', whenever I am looking distraught/lonely somewhere people are more kind/forgiving to me rather than just ridiculing me, and with a feminized body people view me as nonthreatening and they don't avoid me. The societal oppression, by and large, has subsided since transitioning; thusly, I can say that it's misandry, because now that I'm fem-passing, scarcely have such things happened. Granted, now I am dealing with misogyny, objectification, transphobes, chasers, infantilization, vulnerability, weakness, pink tax, body-shaming, etc., but those are notably less traumatizing for me and are minor nuisances I've accepted amid feminineness. I hope that context aids you in understanding, as I don't wanna sound like a 'pick me' femcel who ignores female oppression just because...
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