Yes, a child should grow up in a stable family household with a loving mother and father and a father who doesn't hold up his obligations to his family is very detrimental to that therefore we should call out abusive and deadbeat dads who destroy the family unit instead of hating on people who aren't harming anyone just for choosing not get married and have kids. After all, it's much better not to have kids at all than to have a late-term abortion or sleep around and get pregnant out of wedlock.