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I have super curly hair which is also kinda thick and long and ppl will just reach out and touch it and its so annoying
due to the curliness of it it gets tangled easily making it hard to detangle and wash so when someone has the audacity to take they nasty ass hands and put dem up in my head i feel some kinda way abt it bc it just adds dirt back to the hair i just spent an hour detangling, an hour washing, another hour and a half detangling yet again, 2 hours blow drying, and 2 days getting it twisted up
so yea it offends tf outta me bc that kinda just wipes all my efforts away to have it look nice bc some ppl will mess up the style too
and sometimes ppl wanna be malicious when i wear an afro or have straight hair bc they wanna assume its a wig and try to pull it off to embarrass me. shit hurts like hell have some mf yankin on yo hair like that
and ppl wanna be like "oH doNt bE sO uPsEt tAkE iT aS a cOmPLiMeNt"
im just like mf if i pulled yo hair out would you feel complimented? like tf yall
ik im ranting and shii but when you struggle for 2 days working on your hair to make it socially acceptable, and ppl practically erase all your efforts and you feel like you have no control over your own shit bc ppl just gone do whatever tf they want to and no one listens to you and you cant do nun abt it bc your 5'2 and dont exercise you gone be mad as hell