Consider how many people find furries disgusting. They're entitled to their opinion but that doesn't obligate furries to keep themselves hidden. Same thing goes for people who hate garlic, or country music, or rainbows, or whatever. Those things aren't going away and the people who like them aren't going away either. As long as neither party goes out of their way to cross paths with the other, there shouldn't be a problem.
You make a point about what to do about questionable people. Ideally the communities police themselves, soliciting outside enforcement if necessary. There are genuine creeps in any demographic and bad actors going unchecked is everyone's problem. Jeffrey's a good example. Dude seems to thrive off ignoring boundaries, and gets punted for it every time. Doesn't stop him from coming back, but it minimizes the damage he causes.