Bored

The easiest way to come up with things is by adding "about myself" at the end of the header.

Yes but we have no power or control there either. That’s an illusion too. How many New Year’s resolutions have you stuck too in an effort to “change yourself.”
Have you ever done something you didn’t want to do but did anyway?
Do you not do things you think you should?
This leads into the illusion of free will but that’s a much deeper subject.
Anything and everything that is destined to happen, will, whether we like, agree with or approve of it or not, but, we are all in good hands.
There is nothing that can touch or harm our true nature. ❤️

I wouldn't say it's an illusion of free will to knowingly do things we shouldn't or find ourselves unable to do things we should.

I feel a lot of people ignore the concepts of self-discipline and self-control.

Going off of your New Year's resolution idea, imagine someone really wants to get healthy and lose weight, but for years they struggle to, until they start struggling in other ways that become debilitating. At some point they'll want to get better bad enough that they finally push themselves to escape from their personal misery. That's when the free will becomes stronger and you do more than just dream about doing something good with yourself. You want it bad enough that you motivate yourself.

That's not to say it'll magically become easier, and you're certainly expected to ask for help along the way to keep pushing yourself, similar to what gym bros do.

Okey-dokey