how to not be a hated user #4:; don't spam flags or abuse the tos. spamming flags makes you look like a little whiny pissbaby, and trying to use the tos as a scapegoat doesn't make you look good either. while it is important to follow the tos, don't try to find some outlandish reason why something might violate it. example:
-person A criticizes something you did. they said it in a decently respectful way, and weren't harassing you.
-you dislike it and want to remove it.
-you spam flags and say it's harassment because the connotation is negative, however, it was not trying to harm you. end example.