Here’s an impartial view on what’s happening:
Somebody said they liked shipping two characters, who were minors. Then, everybody started hating on them, fairly. Jacob defended the act of shipping in general. Sallie wants to ban him for breaking the TOS, which according to Sallie, he did, but so did Sallie, going off of their description of the rule.
TLDR: Sallie’s reason for banning Jacob would mean that he (Sallie) broke the rules too.