They find out eventually... then still watch football together on sundays

It's when you hate a group but you realize that there are as human as you are

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kinda

What do you mean "kinda?"

a lot of anti's just don't do that

but I wish that was reality

A lot of furries just don't do that either.
Meanwhile I've seen a handful of anti's find even ground.
Reality isn't one-sided. It doesn't take one side to fix everything.
I have my own long list of gripes with the furry fandom, does that make me an anti-furry?

"anti-furry", especially here, is a over used term and should be used to describe prejudice against the entire fandom, not "I don't agree with this" that is called nuetral.

So two questions then:
1. What if one disagrees with the unlikable behaviors of the fandom?
2. What do you think if someone blindly sides with and defends a group no matter what, even if they face attention being called-out for bad things and bad people, and only wish to say they're victims instead of taking responsibility?

The reality is: there are actually people out there on one side (like anti's) who wish to find middle ground, but a lot of people on the other side (like furries) only want to be seen as victims. The attention that victims get can give you an emotional high, and the furry fandom has a long history of this sort of thing.

this statement is untrue, mostly, for the "agruements" were created by the existence of the "anti-furries" makes people in the fandom uncomfortable.

The "victims" are usually not the furries but the people accusing them of commonly horrible things.

Other furries will accuse furries of commonly horrible things.
The fandom wanted to make an image for themselves as being a safe haven for society's victims and outcasts, and prides itself on being such. Many furry outlets don't like any negative attention thrown at them, even going so far as ridiculing, harassing, spitting on and bullying well-established members of the fandom for calling out hypocrisy, flaws and bad actors.

example? I do not see this often as unlinke most other communities the furry fandom hears them out, beacuse they know people can be quick to judge firsthand.

for both they will just ignore or fight eachother

Replying to your example comment, you were quick to shove the blame for the schism to the anti-furries, even if they say they only care about the zoo and pedo problem. I've talked with people about things that both sides agreed upon, though it paints the fandom in a bad light, which a lot of threads would ban you for.

Both sides have a bunch of "I'm right, you need to work on your problems!" when it's both sides that have problems, but the furries only want to be seen as victims of "undeserved" negativity while a lot of anti's aren't budging, but some (not the kids in school with nothing better to do but randomly spew out blank hatred toward whoever is popular at the time) have made strides to reach out a hand in the furries streams.