Where did we go wrong?

Excellent meme. Let me give you a hand.

Nice one.

If they don't tell you their pronoun how can they be upset if you use the wrong one?

If they don’t tell you their pronouns?

Come on man. It should be obvious which gender they are by simply looking at them. There are only 74 genders. How hard can it be to learn and differentiate? For example, a genderphobe like you will be unable to recognize what gender this person is:

That's clearly a man.

No, this is a man!

It’s clearly a gender-confused Bavarian he/her with a five o’ clock shadow at nine A.M.
Duh

They're leftists, so...

Exactly!

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"Respect it...k..salute!"

Hmmmm…just about two months ago I got a two day timer for using the word “it” instead of someone’s “personal pronoun”.
wtf?

If they identify as female, is okay to use she/it? 🤔

That's the $74 million question.

But if they were born male, he, and if they were born female, she.