people that argue "why are YOU noticing the *insert sexual content*? YOU'RE condoning it!!" are stupid as shit. i'm going to notice something i don't like. im going to notice something that disgusts me. im going to notice something that lwk traumatizes me. it's like seeing something shocking--it sticks in your memory. trying to make ME the one that likes what YOU post makes you admit it's problematic. if you try to shame me for "liking it" you're just stabbing yourself in the foot because YOU like it and YOU posted it