Tbh cuddling is infinitely better than sex; first off cuddling is insanely easy to obtain you can usually be like "hey wanna cuddle" and then if they want to then you can and it usually lasts 30 minutes to a few hours of feeling comforted and safe and loved but with sex it's a pain in the ass to get since you both have to be legal adults and consent and it barely lasts 30 minutes if you're lucky