Aha, I may be aroace sometimes (idk, it's mostly the aro side that fluxes like my gender....Not genderfluid, but librafluid.) but damn-
I hate it when people ask kids (compared to me, you are a kid) if they have a girlfriend yet or a boyfriend yet.
Although honestly, my entire family is Catholic, I'm litterally the only queer and atheist in my family. Both on my dad's side and my mum's side.
Although, my dad's side is mostly from a generation that's basically boomers (my dad included), except well my cousins from that side. But even in my mum's side, my cousins are older than me. Only one is 2 years younger than me. But my mum's side (including my own my mum) are more chill about me being who I am.
(Sorry for the wall of text)