How to…?

Maybe you could ask to go with her to something she likes to do. Or if she plays sports you could take her out
for dinner after a game. She will be hungry so if she likes you she will probably accept. Remember that if she says no the worsted thing that will happen is you have another cringe memory. Also it would help if you know if she is gay or not. That will save you a lot of trouble. If you are scared you could do it in text.

Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it. I have no idea if she is, but it’s pretty likely since her siblings are. I’ve been trying for weeks now and I might resort to a phone call, but I’ll keep these ideas in mind

idk man
you just gotta be honest i guess

Bro ive been rejected so many times I have nightmares, you got to just try, and if doesnt work, someone else will be there