Edgy: No.
You're unique, the two of you are very different as well. My 401 is a bit more sadistic and flirty, and a bit less unknowing of her true self and what she wants. The two of you have very different goals too, you want to impress Inkmatas, my 401 wants to help me in my conquest for the power I yearn for. That and I don't like the two of you the same way, obviously. If you want more help, try talking to her, ok?
You're a great friend, and she's a great wife. You're similar, but not the same. You have your qualities, and she has hers.
Understand?