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Am I just overreacting? | I HAVE TWO FRIENDS THAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THEY'RE FRIENDS ANYMORE.
1. THIS FRIEND WAS THE ONE THAT SAID THEY DIDN'T CARE WHEN I CONFUSED MY DEPRESSED FEELINGS. HE CLAIMS HE WAS PROBABLY TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE IN THE GROUP CHAT BUT THERE WASN'T ANYONE ELSE HE COULD'VE BEEN TALKING TO. I BRUSHED IT OFF BUT IT STILL HURTS.
2. THIS FRIEND WILL OCCASIONALLY PASS ME OFF THE THE POINT THAT I'M LOUDLY SWEARING AT HIM(I'M NOT ALLOWED TO SWEAR). LAST IT GOT BAD, HE USUALLY THROWS BACK ANYTHING I SAY TO HIM DURING THESE MOMENTS SO WE WERE BOTH WISHING WE NEVER MET EACH OTHER. HE TOOK IT TOO FAR, HE SAID "I HOPE YOU AND M NEVER BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN". FOR CONTEXT M IS ONE OF THE 3 FRIENDS I LOST IN A MINI WAR IN THE FRIEND GROUP THAT ENDED HORRIBLE, WE ARE FRIENDS AGAIN AND THIS FRIEND SAID THAT AFTER WE BECAME FRIENDS AGAIN BUT IT HURTS TO HEAR THAT HE SAID BECAUSE LOSING THOSE 3 FRIENDS ALMOST DROVE ME TO SUICIDE. I DON'T EVEN KNOW.
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2 ups, 1y
I want to point out that friend number one is a decently good friend and this was just a one time occurrence. Friend 2 has done this around 5-10 times and outside of those moments he's also a decent friend
2 ups, 1y
I love how I come here to vent about my issues when there's 5 depression streams. In Depression_Much you get people that relate to you, here you get people that show compassion and will actually help you. Even though it's the same 20 people posting and commenting while 1500 other people just watch, while I'm about to have my second mental breakdown silently in the background.

If you want to know, my first mental breakdown was when I was listening to music, a song came one in which was about the song writer wishing he was a better friend, exactly how I was feeling at that time. I then had broke into tear, had a mental breakdown, and then started to try to fix my mistakes.

My initial attempt didn't work and it took the combined effort of me using another one of the 3 lost friends to reach out to the other 2, one of my other friends helping me out by reaching out, and friend number 1 reaching out because he was annoyed about me mentioning how I lost 3 of my closest friends.
1 up, 1y
Oh
1 up, 1y,
2 replies
One unrelated piece of advice: this font is quite hard to read at this size, mabye consider using another font
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1 up, 1y,
1 reply
Read the desc
1 up, 1y,
1 reply
You know what

I never knew that was what was in the meme

I'm stupid
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1 up, 1y
Aw don’t say that about yourself
Your plenty smart
1 up, 1y
I try to make it as readable as possible when I use a lot of words
0 ups, 12mo,
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Friend #1- Maybe #1 was on another electronic device while on the groupchat? Or maybe #1's fond of Dark Humor and was trying to joke with you, not noticing you were telling the truth. So, Personally, IF #1 apologized/will apologize, I would still be friends with him/her/whatever gender.

Friend #2- Try to talk to #2 for one more week. Tell him what he's doing is hurting you, (In a calm manner) and ask if anything YOU or any of his friends or people he's around are doing that is making #2 so rude. If #2 vents to you, listen. Don't try to barge into #2's life to fix things. If #2 starts getting emotional, give #2 a hug! And If #2 says nothing or doesn't fix his/her/whatever gender's behavior, I would stop being friends with #2.
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
Yeah me and friend 1 made up a long time ago.

Trust me friend 2 has nothing bad going on in their life. And its not as much hurting me as much as it is incredibly annoying and irritating
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
Okay, well, have you told #2 it's irritating?
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
They've done this 5 times, they know it's irritating. You can litteraly hear how annoyed I am in my voice
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
In that case, maybe #2's trying to stop being friends with you.
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
I doubt it
0 ups, 12mo,
1 reply
Okay. Then just stop being friends with #2- seems like we've ruled out almost everything...
0 ups, 12mo
That's very difficult to do in this friend group. If you want to stop being friends with someone in the friend group you basically have to get them removed, otherwise you just block them and hope. Last time someone tried to remove someone(three people actually) from the friend group, it ended horribly
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I HAVE TWO FRIENDS THAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THEY'RE FRIENDS ANYMORE. 1. THIS FRIEND WAS THE ONE THAT SAID THEY DIDN'T CARE WHEN I CONFUSED MY DEPRESSED FEELINGS. HE CLAIMS HE WAS PROBABLY TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE IN THE GROUP CHAT BUT THERE WASN'T ANYONE ELSE HE COULD'VE BEEN TALKING TO. I BRUSHED IT OFF BUT IT STILL HURTS. 2. THIS FRIEND WILL OCCASIONALLY PASS ME OFF THE THE POINT THAT I'M LOUDLY SWEARING AT HIM(I'M NOT ALLOWED TO SWEAR). LAST IT GOT BAD, HE USUALLY THROWS BACK ANYTHING I SAY TO HIM DURING THESE MOMENTS SO WE WERE BOTH WISHING WE NEVER MET EACH OTHER. HE TOOK IT TOO FAR, HE SAID "I HOPE YOU AND M NEVER BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN". FOR CONTEXT M IS ONE OF THE 3 FRIENDS I LOST IN A MINI WAR IN THE FRIEND GROUP THAT ENDED HORRIBLE, WE ARE FRIENDS AGAIN AND THIS FRIEND SAID THAT AFTER WE BECAME FRIENDS AGAIN BUT IT HURTS TO HEAR THAT HE SAID BECAUSE LOSING THOSE 3 FRIENDS ALMOST DROVE ME TO SUICIDE. I DON'T EVEN KNOW. I'M A MESS AGAIN.