Gender isnt just about putting a p**is in a va**na, claiming manhood impregnating a woman and habitating in an idealized social construct from a 50's point of view. Thats what insecurities are for. Be you, love who you want to love, treat people with the same respect as you require for yourself and never mind the noise of those who cant or wont allow themselves to grow, evolve and understand the human condition is more than just 1's and 0's. Its not the inclusion or acceptance thats pissing you off, it's that you werent raised to understand its not just about you. You really aren't that special