That’s funny because people who like loli’s don’t look at real children either. Those aren’t real. It’s the same excuse you’re giving for not looking at real animals either.
And if loli’s can’t be translated any other way as you say, then furry porn can’t be translated any other way either. Those are animals no matter how you spin it.
You’re a zoophile because you are sexually attracted to animals. If you’re going to defend it by saying they have human characteristics, then you would be fine with just humans, but you’re not. That’s the point of the meme.