Okay first point, I agree that to taboo normal things isn't good, but conservative parents have no deficiency in teaching their children. We don't send "good vibes" to help, we just believe some things must be figured out alone. However, we don't treat puberty like that. We teach affectively.
Second point, Christians don't say people will burn in hell for choosing sexual orientation, we just believe it is wrong. Christians don't say sinning bans you from heaven, we say not accepting Jesus does. Please make sure u understand theology before you debate it (no offense)