This is a rant. Skip if you want. A while back I was in a chess club. Later quite case of how I was treated. Mum wants me to rejoin the club cause apparently I'm good at it (I was one of the few people who showed up constantly so I had some credit added. Everyone still wipes the floor with me). Then they suggested me going to a different chess club to improve (did you not say a moment ago I was better than everyone else there). Then they brought up how eight years ago I lost to the chess captain (apparently I made him have too think, in reality he went too easy on me and half of the thinking was most likely "where did I F up" and "will my friends tease me about this"). Nowadays not the chess captain but one of his friends don't take their eye off their phone and still kick my ass. Plus when I told some people at the club I wanted to quit they literally said "thank god".I've lost count of how many times I said I didn't wanna do it no more. Their still pressing me to do it. You don't have to give advice or anything, just glad someone was willing to listen to me.