2 Things:
1) You're right - a lot of antifurs themselves need to change and grow as a person and stop being immature 8-year-olds with internet access (I say "most" because I actually met a few reasonable ones [e.g. @JustinCertifiedComrade, and despite him being an anti-fur, I respect him due to him being quite civil and reasonable when being an antifurry, as he has mastered the ability to agree-to-disagree and is very respectful about the whole matter, too - plus he created the AFTF_Peace_Corps, too, where antifurries and furries alike can finally have some common ground that isn't eternal opposition and trying their hands at killing each other online]).
2) Hail Holy Queen, your written English is absolutely freaking fantastic! Good job! (^v^)👍