Yeah, it's that whole "if things aren't my way, then you're the problem causing it" kind of mentality with a total disregard for literally anything, whether someone else's life or even one's own surroundings.
That being said, if that's typical behavior, that's straight abuse. I don't say that lightly, I came from an abusive home as well. You should definitely talk to someone about that and try to get her on some kind of psychiatric help, else the authorities get involved.
(btw, using punctuation not only helps people understand you easier, but also makes it less of a headache to read).