Expanding Brain

This was one of the reasons why I left the community. All anyone wanted initially was to be treated the same as anyone else, but the attention was too addicting. It was social media in real life. We lost the plot and now are progressing backwards fast.

And before you assume anything, I'm a guy who's seen more ducks than I'm willing to admit, but if you don't value my opinion, then you don't care about people. You only care about positive reinforcement via politics within an echo chamber.

You don't have to be an activist to have meaning in your life. You're worth more than you can imagine, and your sexuality has nothing to do with it. It's all about the person you choose to be. If anyone tries to tell you otherwise, then they don't care about you.

When you think in such a manner, you severely limit yourself and the amount of happiness and positive folks you bring into your life which will lead you to ever increasing misery as you go along with it, speaking from personal experience. Don't be an NPC! Be yourself!

Okay , but nobody should be homophobic, because people can't control who they are attracted to/the gender they are. (I don't know how you "left the community)

Nobody should be phobic against anyone, but it is how it is. We're all human, which means that everyone's different and won't agree with everything, but that includes people on BOTH sides. When I "left the community," I stopped supporting and advocating for them after they cared more about being activists than about being people, and went out of their way to hurt anyone who didn't support them and have a general dislike for straight people and Christians. I've seen lives ruined over false allegations, I've seen endless bullying against straight people, and even one man pushed to the point of trying to delete himself and requiring yaers of therapy to deal with his PTSD over it. They act in ways they claim their "enemies" do.

You don't have to be an activst to prove you're a good person. Good people don't need to prove it. All groups like that do is take advantage of people, convincing them to be scared and be angry and to trust no one but that group and shunning anyone outside of it. It's like a cult. The unfortunate reality is that the vast majority of people aren't homophobic. They keep to themselves to be left alone so they don't get caught up in this idiotic civil war, but they literally see everyone the same as long as they're a good person. They won't get any attention though, only the loud ones on both extremes do, which are the ones you either see or are told about.