I like spicy food too, but I think she took it as a challenge. lol
I know spicy food by an American standard, but Asian women know how to do it differently... I'm pretty sure she got a good laugh.
You meet your relative who's from another country; She's nice and offers to make you a snack; It's literally so spicy that you feel like there's a hole in your stomach and you fold over in the front yard and pray because you think you're going to die