Gonna level with you man, abortion is the only reason I voted red this past Presidential election. Make of that what you will, but I've never been a fan of Trump (wasn't old enough to vote in '16, age confession). It irritated me that my first Presidential vote was for Trump. If the Democrats had nominated a truly good guy who really represented my views on life and dignity it would have been no contest; I think the Democrats are too obsessed with identity politics and are overzealous about making a clean energy transition, but they're on board with free trade, actually want to help Ukraine (which I, due to being a second-generation American with a Ukrainian family name and a bloodline to match, absolutely support), overall support investing in small modular fission and large scale nuclear fusion power (which I believe is the energy future of the world), and in general are truly motivated by a genuine desire to harness the power of markets and free enterprise to help those who, because our world is imperfect, truly need it.
You can say a lot of what I just said about Republicans too. The moderates in each camp are truly not so different. Tons of want the exact same results as the Democrats do, we just want to achieve them in a different, slightly less-zealous way. But Trump was my absolute bottom-of-the-barrel pick because he's always been a narcissistic balloon. I recognize that my properly-Catholic stance on abortion is not popular in this country and I accept that it makes me seem unreasonable and pond scum to many, but it is the duty of everyone to act on their beliefs. My hope is that one day one side or the other actually comes to represent one I could support without pinching my nose. We'll see if that happens. I've got an idealistic streak that I think will only die out, if ever, after a long life of crushing disappointment haha.