Him being jew has nothing to do with what i'm saying.
And what you're saying could be applied to any situation.
"oh, you're mother bought your brother ice cream but didn't buy you any? This could effect your life permanently"
What I myself am saying is that saying "I don't care because it doesn't effect me personally" is not only selfish, but extremely disrespectful to people who have to deal with things that happened to them personally.