If you want more of an explanation (this was a shower thought btw🤣🤣):
It is so very hard to not fall into lust, and the emotional trap of fake affection for the means of sex or pleasure. So, when we as men, who DO in fact need the emotional fulfillment of a woman, take advantage of a woman’s liking for us; we are not men. To take advantage is to use her curiosity and want for connection, skip the Dedication step of marriage, and go right to the satisfaction part (sex, kissing, or even hugging closely). This is a grave mistake and an obedience to compulsion. This makes you a scumbag. :)
Even if the special lady is enticing you and giving you permission, your higher judgement should say “yknow, she just wants someone to show her she is Wanted, I HAVE the ability to restrain myself, and I will. Since I know this, if I do commit acts with her, I will have actually taken advantage of her neediness.”
This is why marriage is actually so crucial. If you weren’t kissing and having sex and all that, would you Really still be close? Or are you just using each others lust for benefit, with a little love on the side? Marriage shows an extreme conviction of love, or at the very least, a commitment that you Will provide and care for this woman. Without this development in your life, you’ll find yourself becoming a coat wearer, switching and swapping around based on the weather. How many animals did you have to slaughter to get all those coats?
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