life is short if you feel like you'd be happier as a different gender or dating the opposite sex do you, nobody can stop you and if they try they're just gonna b blocked by all those who support you there is always gonna be someone to support you and be there for you when you're down you just have to know where to look and so what some old guy in his 40s or a 12 year old tells you you can't be that, that's not their decision it is your own