Why tf do people say that replacing “I have to” with “I get to” suddenly makes what you have to do better? I don’t “get to” have enough stress circulating through my mind to have a normal person go insane and get yelled at for not being inhumanly efficient in completing my work. I don’t have a say in whether I attend school or not. And replacing one word doesn’t suddenly make it all better. Which retart thought this is how human psychology works?