I get annoyed if people do that just because they can, but if they do these things because that's how they feel and that's what they think they need to do to be viewed the way they want to, then that's ok
But most of the trans women that I've met have really only done stuff like shave their legs or get bottom surgery, in order to feel more like a woman and less like a man, and the most female stereotype thing that I've seen out of a trans woman in real life was someone at an honor band I performed in in February who grew out their hair and had it in a ponytail and wore more feminine shoes
I know that some people really push stereotypes, but most of them, at least that I've met, don't
