If you feel like you have to change yourself to be with him, then it isn't a good relationship to be in. If he's subtly manipulating you, which it seems he is, then it might be time to end it.
Well if he's trying to make you change yourself for nearly no reason then it isn't really alright or healthy, you should probably talk with him about it
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I don't think your relationship with him is healthy, but that's just my opinion
SO MY BF HAD A BUNCH OF TRAUMA,AND I HELP HIM OUT WITH IT BUT LATELY I FEEL LIKE IM BEING USED RATHER THEN BEING HIS GIRLFRIEND. TONIGHT HE TOLD ME TRIGGERS AND 2 OF THEM WERE THINGS THAT I DID DAILY ,YET HE NEVER FREAKS OUT A WHOLE LOT WHEN I DO THOSE THINGS,IT FEELS MORE LIKE HE DOESNT LIKE THOSE THINGS ABOUT ME AND WANTS ME TO STOP,IM CHANGING MYSELF FOR HIM AND I FEEL LIKE IT ISNT HEALTH,ANY ADVICE?