Abuse Is Not Just Between You And Your Abuser. It Effects Everyone In Your Family In Ways You'd Never See Coming

I HAVE SOMETHING SERIOUS TO SAY TO THE GOOD MEN WHO FOUND OUT ONE OF THE GIRLS IN THEIR FAMILY HAD BEEN SEXUALLY ASSAULTED BY SOMEONE THEY KNOW OR ARE RELATED TO; FIRST, THERE'S NOTHING YOU COULD HAVE DONE TO STOP IT. NOTHING! HE KNEW EXACTLY HOW TO PLAY THAT GAME. YOU DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THERE WAS A GAME; SECOND, START ASKING THE LITTLE GIRLS, AND BOYS, IN YOUR FAMILY, AND NEIGHBORHOOD, IF THEY ARE SAFE OR IF ANYONE IS HURTING THEM; THIRD, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY ... BELIEVE THEM AND HELP THEM WHEN THEY SAY THEYRE BEING HURT! DONT ASK THEIR ABUSER IF THEYRE TELLING THE TRUTH