Gay, lesbian and bi. All have to do with sexual attraction. Most people understand this and although not their lifestyle or perhaps not aligned with their religious beliefs, have come to accept that it is real. Gender dysphoria is something most people do not understand but have sympathy for those few who are diagnosed and support continued medical and mental health support. Most people think it is not right to discriminate against these folks. The rest of the alphabet stuff strain rational logic and lack scientific proof and most people do not believe it is deserving of protection. Because of this a small number of mostly young, mostly liberal and mostly confused people are being manipulated by powerful and rich people to drive their greedy, political and self serving interests. No one is racist, sexist or homophobic for not buying into the manipulation.