Ah, tradition! *cue soundtrack of Fiddler on the Roof*

It's interesting because when anyone actually points to specific behaviors and examples of who demonstrates these specific 'toxic' behaviors, you tend to end up with most people pointing to groups/demographics that are almost entirely raised by single mothers. Black youths and gang members and the stereotypical 'chads and tyrones', for example.

When you then ask 'non-toxic' men (as you' probably call them) what type of men are most sexually successful with women... those men would point to the men above..

That sounds like a mess of stereotypes, if you ask me. Statistically, the men who are most successful in relationships with women are men with big sisters, I've heard.

I'm going to register a strong objection to the way you're lumping in young Black men and gang members as a whole. Also, as the meme above suggests, plenty of toxic behaviors are part of traditional white American culture: frat hazing is an example that springs to mind (not that frat boys are only white, but it dates from the time when most of them were).

And whoever told you that being aggressive and toxic works with the ladies, whatever their race or family structure, was both toxic and wrong. We really can't stand that stuff.