Then you'd be incorrect.
11 Americans have been infected by ebola, mostly during 2014 to 2016 but pretty much 11 ever. THAT'S what "very hard" means in terms of disease infectivity. You pretty much need to be the nurse who cleans the vomit and diahorrea of an infected person to catch it.
The numbers you gave me in your own source are not that. Straight people need to protect themselves as much as anyone else as far as HIV is concerned and your attitude literally kills people. You could actually be responsible for some of those deaths by telling people things that they act upon and then go into the risk categories of unprotected sex.