another thing: i get it! sometimes it's hard to do this. it took me a couple of months to realize this, and this was after i came to my senses about being trans, and that i was NOT. genderfluid is, to me, a thing that i can just BE, without having to worry about steryotypes and junk. if that makes sense. but once you find the thing that's right for you, it will feel right. i hope my advice helped!! <3 :)