but more importantly no hate
I can also do no begging but you need to be kind because both sides will be unhappy. do you realize that upvote begging, despite it being bad in certain situations, does not impact you in any way? It only annoys you because people are getting more upvotes than you. It doesn't really take away anything from other users, that user is just getting points by begging, which I do admit is not a good way. However, I shouldn't be putting "no upvote begging" in the rules entirely because you were annoyed with something and I am doing what several users are asking me to do. there needs to be a balance. I think if users are kind, and if we recognize more small users, people will eventually stop upvote begging.