also what are xenogenders my adhd and autistic brain can't process the google result answer

A xenogender is usually connected to something nonhuman or not traditionally associated with gender (I think, I have adhd autistic brain as well and memory sucks ass) for example genderfae (gender feels connected to fae or fairies) or genderfaun (nature)
Usually those with xenogenders use neopronouns, which are pronouns other than he/him, she/her, they/them, it/it’s, and (I think) xe/xem
Examples of neopronouns: mew/mews bun/buns

Most of that is correct, except for genderfae and genderfaun. Those two are not xenogenders and are under the genderfluid umbrella, with genderfae being a fluid gender on the feminine side of the spectrum, and genderfaun being a fluid gender on the masculine side of the spectrum. Other than that, you’re correct on everything else.

Cool! I’ll make a mental note

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