So to counter your observations, what if we say that people pretending to be the gender they're not are the ones that are not comfortable with their own sexuality. Why can't they just live their lives if they are so confident in themselves, why do they go to compete against women in sports or bully people who don't accept their mental illness? I mean first of all if you were born with male genitals and you believe that you are a woman, doesn't that make you not comfortable with your own sexuality. Wouldn't being offended that people don't want to play pretend with them also mean that they aren't confident in their fake chosen gender? So confusing to be so confused, wouldn't you say?