I had to teach myself a lot about LGBT, so I want to help others who have questions <3

I feel like I'm pangender but also...agender

Ah, all or nothing, I went through this too. Do you feel any connection to the concept of gender? If not then you are agender, since agender is the absence and rejection of gender

I feel like I'm a boy in a girl's body tho

OH! Then congrats my friend, you are transgender! This means that your gender doesn't align with your sex assigned at birth. It sounds like you are FTM trans, which stands for Female To Male. I am this way too!

...I can't be trans it doesn't really suit me, I'm sorry if I'm being stubborn

Well you can always not identify as trans and instead be non-binary or genderless with some masc alignment
Gender is a spectrum of male, female, gender absence, and gender nonconformity and each one can be at any level without regard for the others

It's fine if you don't fit a specific gender mold

Sounds like gender fluid, do you feel like different genders at different times?

Sameeeeeeeeeee

How do I know if I'm polyamorous?

Are you okay with your partner being in a relationship with another person, even if you are not involved with them? Do you want/can you see yourself with multiple partners? Is it fine for your partner to spend time with another person (romantically or sexually)? If so, then yes, you are polyamorous!

almost every xenogender

now this is one that is one I have trouble answering, and unfortunately, I can't give you a solid answer. I think that it is okay to share characteristics with something (animal, aesthetic, etc), but I'm not sure if I would consider that a gender...

Genders that have a connection/bond to something. If someone is catgender then their gender has a specific bond to cats

I’m trans, but idk if i should use another name. I like my name but it’s too feminine

I personally don't believe in gender coding, so if you like your name, then keep it! If you really want to change it, then make your original name your middle name or something. May I ask what your name is IRL? It's okay if you don't feel comfortable sharing, I'm just curious (my OG name is very feminine too).

My birth name is Sophia

Mine is Kaytlin. I changed my name because I didn't like it. I can see why you might want to make your birth name your middle name or make your new name similar to your old one. Hope this helps!

Thank you

Ur welcome! If you have any more questions, you know where to come! I also recommend the YouTube channel "Powered by Rainbows". They have some great and varied info. Check them out!

I have been questioning for too long that I don’t feel like I belong to any gender or even the lack of it. And for names, I lost all care for that so a lot of different people call me different things. One of my favorites is Luck (cause the reason is cool) or Beat Rice (cause it’s dumb)

Basically what I’m saying is, I need advice on gender, like, I don’t feel attached to any gender but I don’t feel attached to agender

Well, maybe go with the umbrella term non-binary. All it refers to is being outside the gender binary (not male or female)

Okay!!

Thank you!! And, any suggestions for a name?

Luck is awesome and Beet Rice is a funny nickname! I personally like Paige, Jamie (especially this one), Cassidy, Riley, Phoenix, Charlie (this one is a fav), and Axie. Hope you like one

Okay!! Thank you!! A lot of people think my name is Phoenix cause it sounds a lot like my OG name

Oh awesome! Go with that one then! You are now an immortal fire bird!!!

I dont really know how to state my question, but I'm a panromantic and I'm in a relationship but I feel kinda asexual? Is this like a normal thing? or is it not something real? Im just not entirely sure if its possible to have all of these things because I'm not very well informed on asexuality

This is totally normal!!! Asexual means you don't have any sexual attraction. You can still have romantic feelings for someone. The opposite of this is aromantic. Aromantic means you have no romantic attraction, but you could still have a sexual attraction. A lot of asexuals are sexually neutral (meaning they don't care about sex in any sense) or sexually repulsed (which means they strongly dislike the concept of sex). Some people are aro/ace, which means they are both aromantic and asexual. Aro/ace people can still want platonic friends, but the romantic and sexual aspect is taken out of any relationship. Hope this clarification helps!

You are the sweetest thing! You made this just help people! You deserve to be number one! Good job!

Aww, thanks! I know what it was like to question everything. Dysphoria is the worst! I just want to make sure that no one else has to go through that as well

HI
sometimes i feel like im transgender (MTF) but sometimes i think im not. could you help? UwU thx

Okay, so, you might be bigender, pangender, or demigender. Bigender means you have two genders, pangender means you have multiple genders, and demigender means you are non-binary but share a connection to a gender. Do any of these fit?

probably bigender tbh UwU

Great! Glad I could help!

I think your gender fluid! Sometimes you feel like a boy and sometimes a girl, right?

can you be trans if you dont know what gender you are?

I just have no idea what gender I am, or what the description is for each gender

I think its best to label yourself as questioning until you find you gender

aight

Yes try out different identities until one fits

wdym?

use different pronouns, different aesthetics, and such, until one feels right

ik I'm a they/them but i have no idea what exactly an aesthetic is-

you don't have to have a certain aesthetic; it can be a combo of multiple. Have you considered being genderfluid? It means you can change between genders. I have genderfluid friends who use they/them pronouns. You could also use the umbrella term of non-binary, meaning you are a gender that isn't strictly male or female (but you can be masculine of feminine).

I have not even thought of those-

ty!

Well, then I recommend looking into these, doing some research, and figuring out what feels right. There is a YouTube channel called "Powered by Rainbows". They helped me a lot when I first joined the community. Check them out when you have the time. Good luck!

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lol you good?

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